is this supposed to happen?

[jess007]

hey there!
About a week ago i went to c my best friend! i hadnt seen her in over 4yrs and seeing her agen after that long was gr8. the last time i saw her i was 11 and now im 15. Neways i saw this girl walkin down towards me..i looked rite at her and didnt realise it was her my best m8 intil she started talkin 2 me!! We decided to hang out n go to a few shops. I didnt really know wot to say to her and just made aimless convorsation! It felt a bit weird cuz i didnt no wot to do or say so there were quitw a few silences! it was werid cuz we'd stayd in touch with letters, emails..txts..etc! She changed loads obviously, like her appearance that was fine but it was her personality. she wasnt the same person i knew bk then. She was really polite (that scared me cuz she was never polite) and she was fairly quiet as well! Then she did one thing. I knew she smoked and all but i thought she'd stopped by now. Neways she got out her ciggertte and started puffin at it! i felt a bit weird and told ehr she shud stop. She just felt like a completely differnt person!
Do u ever have it wen u no sum1 and theres a certain feature that u always recognise, well for me it was her blue eyes, they used to b really bright but i think its bcuz of the smokin they'd gone all dull!
I had a gr8 time becus i was with her and that was all that mattered! Still i feel a but weird about us! is that rite?

[punkprincess1001]

Yes it is right, people change all the time. So it's normal if your metting your friend again and she is different and you feel out of place. Your used to her not smoking or the way she acts so if thats changed I would feel odd to. I dunno if this new person she is being makes you not want to be with her or not but if your still friends then try to see what she likes now just share how she changed and know the new her. although prob to you, you have not change but I bet to her you have a bit too. So try to work it out or even talk to her about the smoking habit and try to get her to quit again if you know thats not her. Only a true friend knows you well so help her out I dunno how you both lost touch by maybe this is how she is coping.

[punkprincess1001]

haha I feel like Dr. Phil.. geez I don't like him he scares me!

[Leah]

^lol
its normal to feel all weirded about it..i mean..i would lol

[jess007]

thx! shes on holiday now so i aint spoken to her for a while n shes movin house wen she gets bk so it'll b a while ti'll i can really talk to her about it! im def still gunna b m8s wid her shes always bin there for me so i guess this is the time im guna b there for her and i guess i do have to get to know her now rather than her then! i was just really naive and expecting her to b the same even tho i knew that she wudnt b! the smokin..well i cant do much about it but ive told one of her really close friends to keep an eye on her (hopefully she doesnt no i told him 2 lol) thx guys!

[punkprincess1001]

aww your welcome I hope everything works out for the best

[jess007]

thx! ur help is really kool!