Post by punkprincess1001 on Aug 8, 2003 11:02:28 GMT -5
I get jealous over the smallest things like my small problem now my friend knew my ex while I was dating him and after she wanted to know him more I know this should not bother me since I was not with him anymore and I could very well care less about him but it made me mad since she went after him I guess you could say I was not fully over but I just don't like when a friend goes for your ex it feels like to me they need to go threw your lets say old laundry while you told them about your past with them and how it did not work out
because of what your ex did. When I break up with someone sadly enough I expect friends to also break up with them sorry I may sound mean but I hate the fact your ex seeing your friend while your around seems like your friend can't go out and find her own. well this friend of mine can never make up her mind on guys so she just talked to him and then moved on so it was not serious. So now my problem is she knows my boyfriend since she works in the mall and also does my boyfriend on on his breaks he goes to her coffee shop to have a bight to eat and to talk to someone. Thats fine I don't mind that at all im not trying to run his life. But it bugged me since she went after my ex and now my new boyfriend so I over reacted and assumed she would try for my new boyfriend. In some way I believe she sees him more then I do so I get jealous since I have a feeling if my boyfriend and I ever break up she will be the one calling on him. They both say I have nothing to worry about thats why I try to convince myself since I believe my boyfriend now is the one for me I have been looking high and low for him so I don't want her to screw it up. I know I can trust im also he says he does not like her other then a friend but when he sees her more then I do see him it worries me. He used to call me from work all the time on his break but he seems to me he is to busy talking with her. She just got a new boyfriend a few days ago but this little friendship bothes me. Yeah you can say im selfage but I hate my boyfriend being around my friends when im with a guy I expect them to be all about me. So anyone if you have any advice for me or just to give me a simple slap on the face and not to worry about it that would be much appreciated.
because of what your ex did. When I break up with someone sadly enough I expect friends to also break up with them sorry I may sound mean but I hate the fact your ex seeing your friend while your around seems like your friend can't go out and find her own. well this friend of mine can never make up her mind on guys so she just talked to him and then moved on so it was not serious. So now my problem is she knows my boyfriend since she works in the mall and also does my boyfriend on on his breaks he goes to her coffee shop to have a bight to eat and to talk to someone. Thats fine I don't mind that at all im not trying to run his life. But it bugged me since she went after my ex and now my new boyfriend so I over reacted and assumed she would try for my new boyfriend. In some way I believe she sees him more then I do so I get jealous since I have a feeling if my boyfriend and I ever break up she will be the one calling on him. They both say I have nothing to worry about thats why I try to convince myself since I believe my boyfriend now is the one for me I have been looking high and low for him so I don't want her to screw it up. I know I can trust im also he says he does not like her other then a friend but when he sees her more then I do see him it worries me. He used to call me from work all the time on his break but he seems to me he is to busy talking with her. She just got a new boyfriend a few days ago but this little friendship bothes me. Yeah you can say im selfage but I hate my boyfriend being around my friends when im with a guy I expect them to be all about me. So anyone if you have any advice for me or just to give me a simple slap on the face and not to worry about it that would be much appreciated.