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Post by punkprincess1001 on Aug 8, 2003 13:05:04 GMT -5
sadly enough im going to share this with you so tell me what you think. ok here goes I have these two friends who I always hang out with they are like my only friends so really when they wanna hang out with me it's when the both of them are fighting. So I feel used when one of them wantes to just hang out. My bf tells me to go out with my friends since im always sitting at home doing nothing. The way I see it anytime I wanna spend time with them they always have something together that I can't really join in. I feel like a out cast half the time the 3rd wheel just a loser asking for some sign of a friendship. My bf is to help and suport me but he never does it. Latly this is whats happening long story short my friend was talking about going taining so I said sure I would love to go Just let me know when your going so the two of them went with out me the deal was the 3 of us would go so after they came back my other friend basically braged about it and in a sorry b-i-t-c-h voice oh you should have came. Well they went again with out asking and they yet again braged about going so my bf says to me maybe they did not want you to come.. yeah thanks for the suport.
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Post by jess007 on Aug 8, 2003 15:36:58 GMT -5
dude that totally sux! i mean real friends (no offence) dont do that! ive sorta got a problem like that but its totally opposite! i dont like havin to hang wid my m8s 24/7! i mean they r gr8 and they r fun but sumtimes i just want sum space and hang with other friends! They sorta get all bitchy wen i go and hang with other ppl instead and are always mean to me wen i talk to them after! it pisses me off but really i dont c y they shud get pissed off!
neways sorry about draggin on! but to ur problem, i think ur friends are being really slack u! and i can understand that u r being used by them. i thinku shud just b str8 up and tell them how u feel about it and if they dont care then they aint worth it!
ive spoked to my m8s about my "space" problem and they r totatlly cool with it!
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Post by punkprincess1001 on Aug 8, 2003 17:44:02 GMT -5
I have spoke to them many times about it and made many arguments in the porcess nothing has changed some friends. when i get back to school im going to branch out meet more people. i don't mean to sound selfage and i know they are still my friends but im going to wait until they come to me if they wanna do something. they are not going to use me whever they are in a fight that annoyes me so much since im the kinda person who helps people all the time with problems so i give and give and with them i get nothing back.
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Post by jess007 on Aug 9, 2003 13:07:36 GMT -5
i think i get wot u mean, do u feel sumtimes they are takin advatage of u? i sumtimes get that feeling! i do stuff for other ppl, listen to them and talk to them. but then wen u wanna talk they dont care...i think i get that feelin sumtimes! its best to branch out a bit. U mite find sum friends who wont take u or advantage...well wotever u do i wish u the best!  |
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Post by punkprincess1001 on Aug 10, 2003 11:30:02 GMT -5
aww thanks for your help yeah Im going to branch out now since really my only friend is my boyfriend right at the moment I love him and all but that kinda gets pretty lonely sometimes. I just need a new group of friends im not looking for a best friend since I love my time alone and also with my boyfriend so I don't need anyone jeliouse and thinks im spening less time with them yeah it's happend to me before thats why I wont go down that road again. When im dating someone I like to be with them all about them so I don't like little best friends in the way. But groups are great you can see them here and there no one gets jeliouse or in the way it's great.
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Post by jess007 on Aug 11, 2003 6:57:04 GMT -5
yea havin a group of friends is kool. they r all differnt and u get along with every1 in one way or antoher! Plus they dont get jealous that easily. tho my friends do..hmmm! lol! but im really close to them so i guess thats y! but if u have a group that r really chilled then its wkd! hope everything works out for ya ;D |
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Post by punkprincess1001 on Aug 11, 2003 10:46:28 GMT -5
thanks for your help
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